did you ever blame other ppl or maybe blame something because you failed to accomplish what you want ? ... i'm sure alot ppl did ...but did you actually think about it ... ppl always say that the only person that can make you sad is yourself ... so ... if its yourself that made you sad ... why should the blame be on others ... i just realised that we can't say that an exam paper is too hard if we can't do it ... we can't say that you fell because someone threw the banana skin on the floor ... ppl should look more at their ownself ... you can avoid that skin if you were paying more attention on the ground ...

of course sometimes its really that person fault and you can't help but blame him/her ... but what good can it do ? ... you'll just make your own life more miserable cause you'll keep thinking about it ... maybe what you can do is to tell the person nicely ... habits are hard to change so give them time ... life is hard enough so save the trouble of making your life more tough ... other ppl is the cause but you're the effect ... you can choose whether to make the effect positive or negative ... think about it ... it'll make your life better ...