since tmr is valentines day today's post would be a special one ... of course it has nth got to do with my great plans for tmr ... i'll say what my great plans are tmr ... as the title above says, i'm not going to criticize any couples or what ... just gonna write how to maintain a relationship ... most ppl will think who am i to write so much when i didn't have any relationship before ... but i dare say i know alot because i always ask ppl around me the reason they break up and from there i learn and analyze ... thats why i like to know how ppl think so that i can try and improve this world ... ppl do talk to me about relationships too ... i think that a relationship is good cause it really teaches so many things about life ... things that you can never learn anywhere else in the world ... so lets begin !!!

what i believe is couples must have understanding ... they can have all sorts of quarrels, misunderstands every thing ... but if they are understanding to each other then all problems will be solved ... how many times have you seen couples on the street ignoring each other just because the guy or girl dun wanna go that place ... even if they have interest differences they still can be together cause they know each other ... they understand each other's needs and they of course give and take ...

love love and love ... must love each other ... cause love can overcome everything ... love can make ppl do wonders ... love induce courage ... basically everything in this world needs love ... without love life is hard ... of course we leave the hurt part for some other day ... express your love for each other ... dun hide it for the other person can't read your mind ... one will not know something that one dun know ...

communicate well ... like i said above ... you must say it out if not the other party wun know ... talk your problems and solve it ... dun drag anything for it will hurt both parties ... always always talk talk talk ... it is also a chance for him/her to know you better ... to know you better so that they can love you better ...

of course most ppl say love is blind but it is not ... love just accepts everything ... accept the bad points of your parter ... and encourage them to show their good points more often ... and maybe if you want you can try and talk to them about their bad points ... of course no one can be perfect ... but maybe it will improve it ? ... maybe it will make a relationship better ? ... of course some might say that if talk to much the relationship will be destroyed ... if it really does happens it shows where the weak point is in the relationship ... its good to discover problems ...

people meet because its their fate ... but who do you wanna keep in your heart is your choice ... right or wrong choice doesn't matter ... what matters most is to cherish this choice for no one else can replace this choice ... happy valentines day !!! ^^ ...