what i mean by taking is ... always wants to have the advantage and doesn't back down ... maybe an explanation won't give the full idea ... so an example ... person A always ask person B for help and B always helps ... but when B doesn't help A would keep disturbing B ... when B needs the help of A ... A dun care at all and refuse at all cost ... this is what i mean by taking ...
giving on the other hand is always giving out their time or help to other ppl ... its like give in to other ppl ... a simple example is donation or help others without any self benefits or doesn't reap any rewards ... the only thing they will achieve is self contentment and of course a boost to your character ...
have you ever encounted someone who likes to disturb or hit ppl but when you hit or disturb them back they'll get angry ? ... its like you can do it on others but others cannot do it on you ... these type of ppl can't survive in the society and i hate this character ... maybe some might think that i do that but no ... when i lame with ppl i can accept them lame-ing back at me ... only i know how to twist it back :p ... its a skill to twist words ...
i dun expect everyone to be always giving cause if everyone is giving then who will be doing the taking ... of course we MUST be giving when the situation is right ... even if the situation is not right we can still give ... we should be giving more than what we are taking ... i've learnt to do that since i was young as my father kept telling me ... it really helps in wherever i am ... i've learnt to accept alot of things ... and i really hope ppl will try to be more giving ...
on a lighter note ... my friends say rong zu er looks like aya ueto >< ... well in my opinion ... she does look like aya ... but ... only at a certain angle with a little likeness ... went fc6 for gems test but no see UIC lala~ ... the answer is there already ...
giving on the other hand is always giving out their time or help to other ppl ... its like give in to other ppl ... a simple example is donation or help others without any self benefits or doesn't reap any rewards ... the only thing they will achieve is self contentment and of course a boost to your character ...
have you ever encounted someone who likes to disturb or hit ppl but when you hit or disturb them back they'll get angry ? ... its like you can do it on others but others cannot do it on you ... these type of ppl can't survive in the society and i hate this character ... maybe some might think that i do that but no ... when i lame with ppl i can accept them lame-ing back at me ... only i know how to twist it back :p ... its a skill to twist words ...
i dun expect everyone to be always giving cause if everyone is giving then who will be doing the taking ... of course we MUST be giving when the situation is right ... even if the situation is not right we can still give ... we should be giving more than what we are taking ... i've learnt to do that since i was young as my father kept telling me ... it really helps in wherever i am ... i've learnt to accept alot of things ... and i really hope ppl will try to be more giving ...
on a lighter note ... my friends say rong zu er looks like aya ueto >< ... well in my opinion ... she does look like aya ... but ... only at a certain angle with a little likeness ... went fc6 for gems test but no see UIC lala~ ... the answer is there already ...
Post a Comment
<< Home