hmmm ... i got a bad habit that i can't change ... whenever i talk to ppl or ppl talk to me i just can't bring myself to look them in the eyes ... i dunno why ... maybe its cause i'm scared to know that they're focusing on me ... maybe its because i dun dare to look at them ... maybe its because i'm afraid i'll see their deep side through their eyes ... maybe i just don't dare ... maybe i dun want ppl to know the deep part of me ...
i'm nowadays forcing myself to look them in the eyes ... but i can only do that for a short while ... after a while an unknown force will pull my eyes away from them ... of course i'm listening to them ... its just that ... i dunno ... i like to look at ppl's eyes ... i stare at it but when the other party looks back i'll immediately turn my eyes away ... maybe just because i dun want ppl catching me looking at them ? ... or maybe its human nature ... you can tell alot from their eyes ... the intensity will show everything ... how the person feels how the person thinks ...
so i guess i must try and give more eye contact as lots of ppl say ... when you talk give eye contact ... its a form of manners ... so when you catch me not giving eye contact when talking ... it doesn't mean i'm not interested or not paying attention in the conversation ... it just means that ... well i also dunno what it means :p ...
i'm nowadays forcing myself to look them in the eyes ... but i can only do that for a short while ... after a while an unknown force will pull my eyes away from them ... of course i'm listening to them ... its just that ... i dunno ... i like to look at ppl's eyes ... i stare at it but when the other party looks back i'll immediately turn my eyes away ... maybe just because i dun want ppl catching me looking at them ? ... or maybe its human nature ... you can tell alot from their eyes ... the intensity will show everything ... how the person feels how the person thinks ...
so i guess i must try and give more eye contact as lots of ppl say ... when you talk give eye contact ... its a form of manners ... so when you catch me not giving eye contact when talking ... it doesn't mean i'm not interested or not paying attention in the conversation ... it just means that ... well i also dunno what it means :p ...




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